Big Anniversary

It's hard to believe, but today is JD and my 20th anniversary. Since I turned 40 earlier this year, I have officially been married half my life! That statistic won't hit for JD for a few more years. As my blog's name states, our plans have been multiplied by God! Twenty years ago, we didn't have a vision as big as God's and He has blessed our lives beyond our greatest hopes! While our children are our greatest blessing, thankfully we also enjoy each other's company and aren't scared of the idea of them growing up and leaving us home alone together, (although that is still way off.)

Our anniversary dinner is delayed until tomorrow night, as Alei had a friend here the last few days that had to be returned tonight. On top of that, I spent today re-doing Julia's hair, taking the three older girls for hair-cuts and getting a flu shot!

Tomorrow's agenda is looking more fun already.

I'll Try to Be Brief

It's taken me over two days to write this post, not because it's a work of art, but because my life can be busy and demanding. I thought that since I've hinted more than once about adding to our family, I would try to briefly summarize our future family plans. We've learned over the last few years, as our family has been grown by God, that He works mightily in behalf of our future children long before we identify them or bring them into our home. As much as I don't relish the thought of tons of adopting paperwork and the stress of the cost, Ethiopia has been planted in front of us at every turn. After the miraculous sale of our boat, which I tell about here, we knew that down the road, we would adopt from Ethiopia. After accepting that fact, although it looked rather unrealistic, we rested that there would be a time that we would know to move forward. I have to be honest, many times as I've struggled the last few years with children and their "special needs," I have thought that the last thing I needed was to start an adoption from a whole new country with children that would have a whole new range of needs. During those times, I've "rested" in the idea that I wouldn't always feel that way.

After attending the Orphan Summit in November, (which I personally consider the high-light of my year,) we both felt it was the time to actively work towards another international adoption. At this point, we know specifically what we think God is calling us to and are excited at the opportunity! There are a few things that we need to fall into place, but it appears that the Lord is working in our behalf. The biggest is closing on our home. If you have no idea what I'm talking about, the short story is that the market crashed in our area between our building loan and final loan, so we have been trapped with a ARM building loan for the last two years. While we haven't closed yet, we did get the appraisal we needed and it still looks like we should be able to close in January. Beyond that, we need to refinance a loan that moved our temporary home down the street to set it up as a rental. Finally, we need to pay off our current Liberian adoption loan, so that we can re-use it for Ethiopia. While it has taken us four years to fund our three Liberian adoptions, with the new adoption tax laws, we hope to be able to pay off an Ethiopian adoption in only a year. And for any wondering, I am a big Dave Ramsey fan, but I don't think it's irresponsible to have a low interest loan to adopt, especially when you know that tax time will refund the loan.

So, skipping forward, we hope to see the above financial things align by spring and then we plan on starting a new home-study. There are new challenges that we will face at that point, but since we know God is already working in behalf of the child(ren) that he knows will be ours, we trust they will also work out as we go forward in faith.

For the logistics, we hope to adopt two children that are at or under Elijah's age. We are also planning on adopting siblings that are one or both special needs. I have been told that siblings are rare and that we can not count on that, but I'm praying that God will align the paperwork cycle to allow us the occasional set of twins or young siblings. The reason for this is that we know that we want at least two from Ethiopia and it is way, way more affordable to do two at the same time, rather than separately, as Ethiopia is now requiring two trips per adoption.

I can be stopped in my tracks with all the unknowns, if I focus on them. Although we've done this before, it is still an emotional and unnerving process. What drives me is knowing that the Lord has set aside a child(ren) for our family and once it's "my" child, there is nothing that I wouldn't do to bring him/her home to our family.

So hopefully, 2011 will bring a new adventure for our family and two new blessings to love.


Here's one of my 2007 African blessings on Christmas afternoon; all the excitement was too much for her.

Julia asked me, just today, "Mom, if I get a sister from Ethiopia, will she be brown or peach?"

Christmas

Merry Christmas - Christmas makes us even more aware of how truly blessed we are with our family, friends, home, food, and the ultimate gift of Jesus' arrival to earth.

Christmas is a wonderful time to have a big family! Hopefully, by Christmas next year, we'll be even a little bigger!

Christmas Eve

Enjoy the little things in life -

For one day you will look back -

And realize they were truly the big thing.

Merry Christmas from our home to yours!

The 23rd

I bet you are reading this blog entry just because my title was so catchy that you couldn't wait to see what it was about. Well, it truly is about the 23rd (and the 22nd.) Yesterday morning we all attended Alyssa's violin concert, then last night we took the kids to a live nativity at a nearby church. Elijah was particularly enamored with the goats; it made me look forward to having goats again one day.

Now on to the 23rd -

This morning we dressed the kids in their Christmas attire to attend JD's work children's Christmas party. They get a turn to receive a gift from Santa, do some crafts and eat pizza. It's one of the Christmas traditions that they look forward to.

Here's "the little girls" before we left -

And "the boys" -

The kids are called up in random order for their gift. Julia was very first this year and Elijah looked shocked and yelled, "he talks" when he realized that Santa was talking to Julia. Oh, the miracle of Christmas when you are two...


Amazingly, Elijah actually sat on Santa's lap when it was his turn. Elijah hardly goes to anyone, so I would have never though that he would go near Santa, much less sit on his lap.


Ben was almost very last and patiently waited though an hour of names being called. He and Santa had a nice conversation about football though.


After the party, I took the older kids and did the final Christmas food shopping trip and random errand. Gabriel wanted to drive, so he dropped me off at the Post Office to buy stamps. When I came out, he was parked at the far, far end of the lot. As I hiked to the car, he, Alei, Moriah and Alyssa hung out the windows taking pictures of me with their phones like they were the Paparazzi. Oh, it's nice to have teens to keep you on your toes!


Here are a few other noteworthy 23rd happenings. Hunter, our cat, likes coffee. He patiently dipped and licked his paw in the mug for quite some time as we put groceries away. Thankfully, he only likes it cold, so your coffee is safe as long as it's hot.

When we picked up our P.O. Box mail today, Alei received this in the mail from "American Apparel." It is a huge red t-shirt with the neck and sleeves cut off. Neither of us ordered anything from the company, nor can we figure out why anyone would ever order such an item! American Apparel had it addressed to Alei and spent $5 on shipping - go figure. Merry Christmas Alei!

A final 23rd note is that Elijah has taken a liking to the story, "Baa Baa Black Sheep." The way the book is drawn has him convinced that Black Sheep is actually a cow, but that's not my point. This morning at breakfast, Tori and Julia were singing the nursery rhyme to him. They got to the point that says, "one for my master, one for the dame and one for the little girl that lives down the lane." They kept singing, "one for my master, one for my..." and couldn't figure out the word "dame." Tori hummed and thought and came up with, "one for my master and one for my pastor," and she and Julia sung several rounds, happy with solving the mystery of the nursery rhyme.

Tis the Season for Lots of Sugar

To continue from yesterday...we did get Julia's hair finished. It involved LOTS of whining and crying AND I really didn't do a good job. It's all fuzzy and messy and already looks like it needs to be redone. All in all, a major hair disaster. I'm revisiting the idea of doing tiny braid locs in her hair since doing her hair is both a miserable experience for her and me! I'll be weighing that as an option after Christmas.

I had a plan of making Christmas cookies today, but were blessed with tons of sweets from two of JD's sisters last night. We are having far more variety than I've ever made in my life!

And lo and behold, Aunt Cyndi whipped up a fresh gingerbread house for the kids. We had a debate about eating it, but honored Aunt Cyndi's wishes and let the kids eat it after lunch today. It was so cute!

Elijah choose a gingerbread man from the front.

The house is now just a bare shell. It makes me kind of sad, but the kids sure enjoyed themselves; I guess that's what it really is about. Thank you Aunt Bonnie and Aunt Cyndi!

We are still going to make and decorate cookies for our neighbors.

Monday, Monday....

Well, it's the final count-down until Christmas around here and JD and Alei have hit the interstate to bring Grandma here. They only have a "sixish" hour round trip today, but will have the full 12 hour trip next week to return her home. I have dedicated the day to the more exciting things in life - primarily Julia's hair. As you can see, we have successfully removed her previous style and she is ready for a wash and new style. Since I'm feeling more confident in my corn-rowing ability, I'm going to attempt a brand new style. I feel like an artist with a blank canvas; too bad my canvas squirms and whines!

My canvas, however, is such a natural dancer that I feel it would be a waste of God-given talent to withhold her from dance lessons any longer. I am going to look into ballet lessons for Tori and Julia after Christmas. While I'm going to start with ballet, it probably isn't Julia's natural tendency. Several times, while working on her hair, I have had the pleasure of watching Angelina Ballerina. In my favorite episode, Angelina is entering a dance competition and her competitor is a hip-hop dancing mouse. While the classical music plays, and Angelina dances, Julia sits very still. However, when the hip-hop music starts, for the opponent mouse, Julia is virtually incapable of sitting still - her hips keep perfect beat with the music while I hold on to her hair!

On a totally different note, sometimes I am so, so thankful I don't get my way in life! When we were designing this house, JD insisted in installing two dishwashers and two washers and dryers. Having recently returned from my two trips to Liberia, I balked that it was over the top and completely unnecessary. I obviously didn't fight long and hard, because I have double ovens, dishwashers, washers and dryers and I am so, so thankful!

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Here's the dishes waiting their turn this morning is spite of both dishwashers being full. It's still crazy to me after growing up in a small family!

Have a blessed "Monday before Christmas."

After 4 Months....

After 4 months of being in Colorado, Gabriel flew home today for Christmas break. The kids made these "welcome home signs;" well actually, Moriah wrote the words and let the littler guys decorated them. By the time they were done, they were really barely readable. When we whipped them out at the airport, Alei laughed and said she had never seen such hideous signs. It was entertaining to watch the people walking by trying to make out what they said.

Elijah has been waiting for this moment for quite some time; he was nervous, excited and showed off for us while we waited.

I really didn't think Elijah would go to Gabriel right away, but he did without hesitation.

It's cool to see the bond between brothers despite 17 years of age and living 2,000 miles apart!

We are so thankful that Gabriel is healthy, happy and home!

Tractors and Babble

I thought I would have wonderful "extra" time this week, since we took off school. Instead, it has been one of the most hectic weeks I've had in months. We have been dealing with Charlie, the chicken killer, and his new lot in life. Yesterday, we also had our two "afro" roosters die, after one lived in a box in the entry way for the day; thankfully Charlie had nothing to do with their untimely passing. Yesterday morning, I also woke to the news that James was throwing up; fortunately, he was back to normal by noon and no one else has followed suit.

Aside from crises moments, we have managed to cook and clean a bit. Yesterday the kids and I deep cleaned the playroom downstairs. The volume of stuff under the couches was so unbelievable that I didn't even dare to take a picture! I now know where all the missing socks were along with hundreds of toys and millions of barrettes.

This morning, I headed out in a mini blizzard to buy food for my family. I left all the children with Alei and was thankful I did as I drove slowly through the snow and maneuvered through the crowds at the Commissary. It was also somewhat relaxing to drive through the snow, listening to the radio instead of Julia!

We are preparing for Gabriel's homecoming tomorrow; hopefully the snow won't be an issue for the airlines. Since I won't have any Gabriel pictures until tomorrow; here's his littlest sibling waiting for his arrival.

Elijah still spends much of his day admiring tractors, real or play, in any book or magazine that shows them.

This is his new 50 cent tractor from my favorite base thrift store; he has spent most of the day with it. He is still also doing the "please let me wear my pajama" thing; I don't figure it matters on a snow day!

Chicken Mystery and Update

Since I never updated about the little silkie chicken lost in the woods - we did find him. The next morning at 7:45, I dumped my boys in pajamas and coats down the road while I headed to the doctor with Tori. They successfully found him and carried him home. I posted the same day about something that keeps killing my Guinea hens. Unfortunately, I found out today that it is Alyssa's beloved dog, Charlie. So, Charlie just lost his farm freedom. He primarily lives in the house anyway, but now when he goes out, he has to be watched or put on a run.

Tori had eye surgery in Richmond this morning to remove the little skin tag from her eye-lid. She came through just fine and is home playing normally. JD also got a chance to visit the girl's father that I posted about asking for prayer for last night. She made it through the night, but still needs prayer.

Our Christmas fun project and clean out project has fizzled today - I'll try to get back on track tomorrow.