Time Line and One More?

People keep asking about the time-line we have for getting Isabella home. There is a HUGE amount of variance based on the individual children's cases and the agency involved, but here is our rough idea based on everything going smoothly. 


JD and I have fingerprinting appointments for March 9th, but we thought until this morning that we had to wait about a month for an appointment for Gabriel and Alei (anyone over 18 in the home has to be done.) This morning, JD called and they are processing the "big kids" in hopes of us being able to take them that day as well. This is the last thing that we have on the U.S. side of the adoption until visas before traveling. In the meantime, our dossier is on step four or five of six stops before it heads to Ethiopia, separately than my immigration paperwork. 


After both of those items arrive in Ethiopia, we should be scheduled for our court date as soon as eight weeks. Court is the point we travel for the first time; so could be as early as the end of May (or months and months later, but we are focusing on best case scenerio.)


After we travel for a week, we come home without Bella and the wait between trips is about three months. There appears to be some that go as quickly as six weeks and some that drag on longer, but we are planning on three months. I imagine that that time will be the longest in the adoption waiting game. So, we are praying for all to go smoothly and for her to be home by the end of the summer.


As for the portion of my title "one more," you may remember that we did our home study for three children and really hoped to come home with two. Isabella was paperwork ready, so we would have to be matched with another child that also has the beginning of paperwork done in order to not delay her. At this point, the agency does not have any children within our range that have paperwork that has made it to America, but they are going to visit the orphanages on the Ethiopian side and see if there is one. Our range right now is that we asked for any girls to be under Julia's age and any boys to be under Elijah's age. We should know for sure if there is even a child to consider within a week or so. We know that this will be our only Ethiopian adoption, due to our ages and the Ethiopian recommendation that families have less than ten children when they begin, so it's two now or Bella will be the lone Ethiopian in our family.


(The good news is that we haven't aged or numbered out of Uganda or China yet.)


So, there's where we are in a nut-shell; we covet any prayers for Bella and our family during this time.

Fundraiser

Although this is our 5th adoption, 4th international, we have never done a fund-raiser before. When we adopted from Liberia, we took out a $40,000 second mortgage; we paid on it for years, then re-financed it in with the house when rates lowered. We knew going into another adoption round that we had to do it differently. Thankfully, thanks to Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace, we actually have a surplus of money (snowball) every month that has gone to this adoption. (I think Dave would have recommended we pay off our house, but we feel called to do this adoption.) Since Ethiopia's cost has increased substantially due to making two trips and the reality that our adoption is flying along at top speed, we are still at the point that we need to raise money to supplement our "snow-ball."


I have a set up a simple coffee shop fundraiser online that is run by the coolest company - Just Love Coffee. While they are fair- trade coffee, insuring that the farmers are paid a fair and decent rate; the proceeds go to us and building wells around the world. The average price for a bag of coffee is $13 and we receive a check for $5, which is a much better rate than many fund-raisers. Would you please help support our adoption by purchasing coffee (that most people buy anyway) from our shop?

https://justlovecoffee.com/about/beneficiary/ourplansmultiplied/

Thank you!

We Finished

We managed to get a full day of school in and finish our downstairs project. It's amazing what I can accomplish on the days that I get to stay home. The boys now have lovely green carpet in their room. Granted it's not the color I would choose, but it's so nice to have carpet down on those concrete floors. 

James and Ben's room is right off the playroom, so it's just a continuation of the green we laid in there a few months ago. 

I also finished the linen closet; it will be nice to have another, but for now it's crammed in there. Alei told me that she read on Pinterest to put the sheet sets in the pillowcase and it worked nicely. When Alei mentioned it later, JD told us that is how it's done in the Navy. Who knew? All those years I was a Navy daughter and then a Navy wife, no one ever told me that trick. 

It sure is a lot more convenient to get a blanket now than digging down four rubber-maids. 

After cleaning, we still had a bit of time to bond with the hamsters - 

And admire Elijah's new shirt. 

My next down-stairs project is painting a wall and hanging all the pictures I have framed waiting. 

Not Yet

 I wish I could post some finished pictures of my projects down-stairs, but I can't because I'm yet to get back to work down there. I have been focusing on a good week of school instead, although we did take time out this morning to clean the  hamster cage in an effort to keep the entire basement from smelling like hamster.


These are the pencils that I replaced in the pencil cup today. Ben sees it as a challenge to use the smallest pencil possible until I confiscate it and throw it away, before it gets stuck in the electric pencil sharpener. There was also not one eraser in sight, although I did find several thrown in the bottom of the cup along with a plastic penguin. Pencils are one of those items that I took for granted growing up as an only child (until 11). My children regularly have conflict over pencils. They argue over who had the pencil first is, who used up the eraser and who left in on the ground when I want it picked it up. There is more pencil drama in our house than I could have ever dreamed of as a child. (I at least have arrived at the point of realizing that conflict is an unfortunate part of large family life; the first several years I seriously wondered what was wrong with my children.)

When we aren't doing school, we are making food. It's really remarkable how much food we go through! I am naturally a thrifty person, but I don't have time to shop multiple stores, so I mainly stick to the Commissary and Costco and we are spending a decent mortgage every month feeding our growing brood. I don't think it's going to get any better, so I'm just thankful that we are able to provide so well for so many. There's no starving kids at our house and that is really one of the biggest blessings that we take for granted in this country.

Linens, Carpet and Snow

Although we moved into our house 3 1/2 years ago, there are many things yet to be done. It's definitely a down-fall of being your own builder. We have a small towel cabinet in the master bath, but the two linen closets have been empty shells down-stairs until now. This has been my "linen closet" - you can imagine how convenient it has been!

JD finished the smaller of the two linen closets. This one is in the hall, the larger one is going to be in the bathroom.

We moved this old armoire in a few years ago when it was left by a renter. The doors were broken off, JD wood glued them back together and I unloaded my scrap-book stuff into it. I got to thinking that since the last serious scrap booking I did was before Tori came home over five years ago that I probably didn't have to keep my stuff that accessible, so the armoire is turning into a blanket cabinet. 

While I was working downstairs, Moriah started helping the boys clean out their shelves. I decided that if they were going to clean out, we might as well lay the carpet that's been waiting for their room. I then had them unload their room into the hall-way (in my way). JD was blessed with the job of trimming the carpet (which made him feel important). This isn't our long term carpet, just some freebie that we cut to room size and laid down without padding or installing. 

Much of both jobs is left for tonight, so I'll have to post completion pictures later. We had to take a break this morning to play in the only tiny snow of the year and we are still plugging along at school this afternoon. 

Julia and Elijah

Elijah and Julia - 

Elijah - 3 1/2                                                                          

Julia - 5 1/2 

(Next picture trip - Tori, Ben and James)

 

Good Morning!

I'm only not naming this post "It's a Glamorous Life" because I've used that title before - it would totally fit! I pulled myself out of bed at 5:40 to meet my friend at the gym. By Friday I'm pretty exhausted and don't really feel like going, but I go anyway. I got dressed and headed to the kitchen for my customary water and banana. As I rounded the corner, I heard James and Ben's voices in the living room. As I was about to send them back to bed, I discovered that they were up because Ben felt sick and they decided the best place to wait out the vomit was on the living room couch, far from a bathroom and without a bowl.


Once I set Ben up on the school couch, next to the bathroom, he started throwing up. The wild thing was that in between he acted like a hyper little kid and was jumping around the couch instead of acting sick. I'm yet to figure that out since I usually feel very bad between vomiting rounds!


As I was texting my friend to cancel on her last minute, Julia showed up to announce that she had wet the bed. I put her in the bathtub and headed down-stairs with the bedding. I decided to be efficient once I realized that Elijah's little 4-wheeler battery needed charging and slid out the back door to grab it real quick. Of course, I locked myself out and had to run around to the front in the dirt to get back in. I was thrilled to discover that JD hadn't locked the front door since he assumed I was heading out right behind him this morning. I envisioned having to beat on the front door for a while before someone heard me. 


By noon, James and Tori had joined Ben in the sick line-up, but by dinner they changed their minds, ate and went back to running around. I was planning on taking the youngest three for pictures, but left Tori since she was possibly sick. I did get cute pictures of Julia and Elijah that I will scan and post tomorrow. 


To hold you over in the picture department, I present my stupid, stupid cat, Lucy, who decided to take a nap on the turkey platter that was cleaned and awaiting putting away. I have a squirt bottle and I know how to use it, but it barely slows her down. 

Here's Elijah when I told him that he was going to have BARE feet in the picture; he immediately got excited and wanted me to show him the BEAR feet and asked if they had claws. When I tried to explain, he cried and requested that he wear the Pooh suit in the picture since Pooh is at least a bear even if he doesn't have claws. Turns out that the Pooh suit doesn't even have feet; this picture is Elijah analyzing if it is going to pass or he is going to engage in another round of crying for bear feet. (In the end, I distracted him with side-walk chalk.)

I 

Some Saturdays I go to the gym, but tomorrow I am sleeping in as long as there is no vomit or urine to interrupt my plan. 

Her Name

We signed, notarized and mailed our referral acceptance today. Addisalem is going to be Isabella Addisalem. Isabella is a root of Elizabeth and means God's Oath; it fits pretty perfectly for the child that we have waited three years for. According to my sister, who has language experience, we think Addis is flower and salem is peace; either way, I think it's a darling Ethiopian name and am keeping it. So, like many of our other children, she has a long name but we are going to use the nick-name Bella. 


(I also fixed my comment issues.  I had changed Blogger to my new email address, but had the comments still coming into my old address. So, if you haven't been able to get comments through in a while, feel free to try again.)

It's A Girl!

Our referral is here - our new child - #10 - she is a precious little girl! I am not allowed to show her picture until we pass court, but oh, how I wish I could! Her little smile is enough to melt the hardest of hearts. She just turned two a few days after Tori's birthday in January and her Ethiopian name is Addiselam. We will probably continue our adopting trend of giving her a first name and using her current name as her middle name. She is 18 months younger than Elijah. When I showed him her picture today, he said, "oh, I just wish she could come home right now." So do I baby boy; I could be on a plane in a matter of days if it were that easy! Alei cracked me up by saying, "I'm so glad she's cute; the rest of us are decent looking so it's nice to keep that trend." I have to say that I don't believe I have ever seen an Ethiopian that I didn't think was darling, but she really takes the cake.


We are so excited. I am amazed at the goodness of God and the road he has taken us on. The realization that he led us to know that we had a child in Ethiopia three years ago, but didn't give the green light until this November, shows how much he loves the orphan and the extent he will go to place them in a family. The orphan statistic is a huge number, but it's made up of sweet little faces like my new daughter, faces that deserve the love of a family! Our plan now if just to pray our paperwork through. We need to start with immigration; we need a fingerprint date and to get our homeland security paper out of the country. 


God is good and we are among the most blessed! (If you live local, I have a picture in my purse!)

Look Who We Found

The good news is that Alyssa found Chip Chip before the cats; she was just taking a leisurely stroll down the hall last night after being missing for over 24 hours. 

She was noticeably hungry and thirsty and crammed almost the whole food bowl into her cheeks. Later she ran on the wheel and it all came flying out of her cheeks; it made enough noise flipping around on the wheel that it woke up the boys.

In case you are wondering if I'm sticking to my threat to James that the hamster would no longer belong to him, yes I am. It is now Tori's hamster, but she is being kind enough to keep the name  James chose. James was warned on four different occasions in less than 24 hours to watch the ball and decided to not head the wisdom. I'm quite confident that we would have a repeat scenario in less than a week if it remained his pet. He is allowed to hold Tori's new hamster with permission. Ben will help Tori supervise hers when she gets it out also; Tori is pretty responsible but is just seven.