We are having some food struggles - Bella has eaten NOTHING other than bread, peanut butter, cereal and bananas the whole time we have had her. JD did persuade her to try a bite of macaroni, but she then again refused to eat it today. Selah is a bit more adventuresome, but just a bit. I'm not refusing to give them bread without peanut butter, since they have protein deficiencies.
At nap time, I lay them down together and sit by the bed while they cry themselves to sleep. It generally doesn't take more than 10 minutes. At night, JD and I each rock one, but Bella likes to wake up and have about three rounds of rocking. Once she is really, really out, she sleeps all night. After seeing their sleeping arrangement in Ethiopia, they are sleeping well together in the little toddler bed.